It’s as easy as visualizing right? Sigh. I think it’s easy to forget what’s really important is consistency.
Speaking from experience, just visualizing it isn’t enough. Especially visualizing it just once. Let me clarify by giving an example. In my life, I really want that luxury car. That Nissan GTR. Yes. I closed my eyes, saw my metal colored 2016 GTR. I could feel the rumbling, the leather seats, the paddle shifters. It was breath-taking. I smelled it, felt it, and even stuck it on my vision board. Well almost a year has passed. I don’t see my GTR. Couldn’t have been more disapponted. Does this stuff really work?? How can there be a whole industry created on the Law of Attraction yet I’m having trouble getting the one thing I really want?
Then it hit me. It’s a combination of two things: CONSISTENCY and DISTRACTION. You need to be consistent with your desires. How badly do you want it? How far are you willing to take your dream? Do you dream about that GTR everyday? In my case, absolutely not. The reason you ask? I was distracted. Distracted by daily life. Distracted by going to work, my routine, other stresses, paying bills, making sure I’m making the right decisions. The distractions then lead to self-doubt. Doubt whether I will be really able to achieve my dreams and goals. Trust me, getting yourself out of that doubtful rut is 75% of the trouble. After you’re out, staying focused on what you want is the easy part. I still struggle with this. The creation of that doubt is not brought on by anyone else but ME. What I portray is what others perceive. We collectively, need to break that habit. We need to start thinking higher of ourselves. Start telling ourselves positive things. I am worth it. I ABSOLUTELY can get that GTR. I absolutely WILL get that GTR. Why?…because you are equally capable and deserving as every other human on this planet.
Let’s start today. Let go of that self-doubt. Let go of distractions. When you wake up in the morning, repeat to yourself how accomplished and deserving you are of all the good things this world has to offer. People are sometimes afraid to ask also due to guilt. You should also remember that you should be just as giving as you are opening up to the ability to receive. That’s the cycle we should practice every day. Before you know it, you are well into your dream life….
Keep practicing! I will surely be 🙂